I have recently written a post about this so you can read about it HERE. But what you got to remember is that everyone is different and being underweight doesnt necessarily mean that someone is sick or unhealthy. An eating disorder is a mental illness and not just about size. There are people who are normal weight or overweight and suffer with eating disorders, but weightloss and being very skinny are often a consequence of the eating disorder. Because not alot of people start off extremely skinny and underweight and then develop an eating disorder and lose even more.
There are people who are naturally very skinny or underweight and that doesnt mean it is a bad thing, of course if someone isnt eating enough (though doesnt mean they have an eating disorder) or they have a low body fat percent then in the long term it can cause problems. You shouldnt compare yourself to anyone else and being skinny doesnt make you better than anyone else, you need to realise that your problems are in your head and if your body naturally doesnt look a certain way, then dont try to force your body to look that way. Your only aim and focus should be health and happiness, not trying to be the skinniest because that wont bring happiness.
One of my friends from hihgh school was(is) very skinny. When i first started the class i did presume she had an eating disorder as she was so thin and at first i found it just a little hard to be around, but then i got to know her and realised that she didnt have an eating disorder, that she was naturally very tall and skinny and infact her whole family was like that. She also works as a model but that didnt stop her from eating McDonalds and other stuff, infact she ate more during lunches and such than my other friends and she often had snacks with her. It sounds a bit like i have analyzed her, haha, but these are just small things i noticed during the 3 years. The way she looked was her natural body shape and not because of a diet or an eating disorder. There will ALWAYS be people skinnier than you, either people who have an eating disorder or people who are naturally skinny but you need to focus on loving yourself and not getting triggered or bothered by how others look. Focus on your own health and know that everyone looks different.
Below are two other helpful posts:
Feeling jealous over others
The desire to be thin
I hope this helps, but the hard work has to go into your thoughts and mental state and changing "skinny=best" into "health&happiness =best"
only curious ... number 4) daily housework? do you divide it amongst you in your family? what do you do? only curious!
Are you still together with your boyfriend? You haven't written anything about him :s I'm sorry if you don't want to write about it.
Hahah yes I am :) I havent seen him in a week now as i was away on the island and then he became sick so i didnt want to meet him (he thinks im mean, but i really dont want to catch a cold/sickness). But we talk on the phone each evening anyway :)