I then replied by saying, Not everyone likes tanned skin. There are many people who prefer their natural skin colour. My sister replied by saying, But then those people are 'outsiders' they are different and not the same. And people dont like being different, its natural for people want to stick together and be similar. And eventually, the different becomes a trend or hype when too many people feel the need to rebel and be different. And then it becomes not so different, just a different trend.
There was a time when skinnier were women were mocked and skinny was not the trend, instead it was curves and a bigger form which was the 'trend'. So skinny women often tried to eat more to gain weight, look like the trend.
Now a days the trend for women has become a lean, toned and athletic look which puts ALOT of pressure on women because not only do they need to be skinny and have a low body fat (Preferable an unhealthy body fat procent according to media) but they also need to have muscles... but of course, not be 'too strong', because that is unattractive and intimidating.