Coming home from an awesome day and seeing the recent happenings in the comment section. And what can I say?
Some people want more personal posts. Some people want less personal posts. Some people want more food photos and others want less.
Some people want exercise posts. Some don't want any exercise posts.
Some things trigger some people, other things trigger other people.
But in the end this is my blog.... I write because I enjoy it. I want to help and inspire others and using my blog is also a good thing for my future career. Because I want to continue helping others.
I try to find a balance of things, while still posting about what I want to. There will always be people who dislike me, people who don't like my blog or think what I am doing is wrong. That's your opinion and YES, YOU ARE ALLOWED YOUR OWN OPINION. And I do accept constructive criticism, but I also think about the majority. Just because one person tells me that they want less food photos but I have 10 other people telling me that they want more of them. Then I do listen to the majority, but also try to balance things out.
One thing which I don't accept or enjoy is when someone tells me that my blog is useless and not needed. That I am wasting my time and that all I will achieve in life is a blog? -that is not contracture criticism that is hate
I don't personally think I post alot of body photos - not at the moment anyway. Some periods there are more,some periods less... but maybe that's where I am wrong?
But I personally think that it's boring to read posts without pictures. And as I don't post pictures of friends, family or my boyfriend and I am wary of posting too many photos of where I am as there are weird people online. So then some selfies or food photos is what I post. But also I AM building a social media network. I have CHOSEN to be active on social media... that is my way of building my future career and I enjoy it as well. Even if there are some negatives sometimes.
Do come with constructive criticism as that IS helpful. But I don't accept full on hate at me or my blog - then it's better to choose to just not read. Remember I am just one person, if you don't like me then move on with your life. You are not expected to like everyone or like everything people do. But please don't sit and read my blog and build up an irritation and hate towards me when I don't believe I have done anything wrong.
If you want less personal posts, just let me know. Or if you don't want me to write about my thoughts or something or other. Just comment I do take all comments on board and try my best to help everyone. And if I can stay away from too many triggers I try to. But once again triggers are very individual.
Also the thing with body image.... There is nothing wrong with taking pictures of yourself. If you don't like it, you don't have to. But don't hate people who do it... everyone likes different things. And the fact is society IS focused on body image. People do look at your appearance but the fact is to be happy in YOUR OWN BODY. Because then you don't care what others think.... you are happy in yourself and so you don't mind seeing yourself in the mirror or pictures. Your body is your body, you treat it right. Liking your body means loving your insides just as much as your outsides. And you know what. ... there is nothing wrong with wanting to change your body. If it's a positive and for the right reasons.... Because you know what strength training and getting bigger arms and legs helped me love myself even more as I wasn't happy with my stick thin arms... so that doesn't have to be something negative. Change should be done for the right reason and in the right way. However this is a post in itself.... and if you don't like society then BE THE ONE to change it. Because the people make society... and yes, we can all be the change. And I try to help and make a difference in the best way I can and I do that by blogging.
Anyway, now I am going off topic. But if you have constructive feedback then comment - I am a rational person and don't get angry towards other people unless they are unnecessarily rude towards me.