I am super forgetful, just talking lots and such... im no vlogger. I prefer to just type :)
Anyway, i realised that i had forgotten to talk about the main thing which i had planned to talk about!!!
Learning to live life and forget what your body looks like. People seem to pay too much attention to their body and the way their body looks, but really... there is more to life than that. Yesterday when i was enjoying myself and celebrating New Years eve, despite having a bad body image day before hand and just hating how i looked. When i finally got out i just forgot about that, i could enjoy myself and be happy. Not care about how i looked. To be able to live life, have photos taken of you, be with friends, go on adventures and such and just not care what your body looks like. Its freedom. But also you realise that there is so much more to life than what you look like....
So many people focus on having a low body fat procent or a flat stomach or lean legs or whatever, but in the end you wear tops and jeans and coats anyway. Of course during summer or warmer countries you arent as covered up, but who cares. Who cares how your body looks... i know society tells us we have to look a certian way, we have to be thin or have a flat stomach to fit in but thats not true. I know i may seem hypocritical and ive been asked if i would love myself if i look different and i am sure i would.
But you need to learn to live life and not place so much emphasis on how you look... to not care how your arms or legs or stomach look. To just be happy, to be comfortable and be able to do other things than sit infront of the mirror and cry or be too afraid to leave the house because you think people will judge you.